CAN YOU RELATE?

You want to feel confident but it always feels out of reach.
You’ve worn the “shy girl” label for so long, you don’t even question it anymore.

You say yes when you mean no, bite your tongue to keep the peace, and keep shrinking so no one else gets uncomfortable.

You’re walking on eggshells in your own life - in motherhood, in relationships, at work, and especially in your head.

HERE'S THE TRUTH...

The version of you you keep dreaming about?
She’s already in you.

She’s not a fantasy. She’s not “for other women.”

She’s you - underneath the stories you’ve been carrying.

The real block isn’t your personality. It’s the identity you’ve built to survive.

The beliefs, the guilt, the people-pleasing, they’re not who you are, they’re who you learned to be.

Confidence doesn’t come from becoming someone else, it comes from finally coming home to you.

That’s how you become UNSHAKABLE.

🖤 The Identity You Built vs. Who You Actually Are
We map the gap between the version you’ve been performing and the woman you’re becoming. You’ll get clear on what’s real, what’s survival, and what’s no longer working.

🖤 Voice Activation
You’ll find the truth you’ve been silencing and learn how to say the thing, even if your voice shakes. No more shrinking, over-explaining, or swallowing your truth to keep the peace.

🖤 Body as Home
This is where you stop abandoning your body and start listening to her. You’ll reconnect to your nervous system, learn your personal regulation tools, and build safety to show up as you.

🖤 Shadow Work & Boundaries
We go into the parts of you you’ve been hiding, the rage, the “too muchness,” the guilt, and give them space to exist without shame. You’ll build boundaries that protect your power.

🖤 Pleasure, Power & Self-Trust
You’ll explore what actually feels good in your body, and stop living by what looks good on paper. You’ll start trusting yourself to lead, speak, and live without apology.

🖤 Embodied Expression
By the end, you’re not just thinking new thoughts, you’re living from a new identity. You’ll practise showing up as her now, in your voice, your energy, your daily life.

WHO THIS IS NOT FOR

This space will move you, if you’re willing to meet yourself fully, but it’s not for everyone.

This is NOT for you if...

✘ You’re looking for a quick fix, a surface-level confidence boost, or just another course to tick off, this isn’t it.

✘ You’re not ready to take radical self-responsibility and show up for the real work.

✘ You’re not open to exploring your beliefs, your patterns, your identity and nervous system.

✘ You have untreated, deep emotional trauma or abuse that hasn’t been supported by a licensed therapist or psychologist.

This is co-creative work, where I’m here to walk beside you as you remember who the hell you are.

If that feels true for you then keep reading...

Hey, I’m Jess.

I thrive in helping women become Unshakable.

Not just “confident,” not just “empowered.”
I’m talking unfiltered, self-backed, solid-in-your-skin kinda Unshakable.

I’m an Identity & Embodiment Mentor, NLP + mindset + shadow work coach, ex-paramedic, wife, mum — and a woman who spent years performing her way through life just to feel “enough.”

I know what it’s like to shrink yourself to keep the peace.
To say yes when you mean no.
To hold back your truth because you’re scared of being too much.

I also know what it feels like to break those patterns and to find your voice.

To stop abandoning yourself and start living like you actually trust who you are.

That’s the work we do inside this mentorship.

Just the real, raw process of remembering who you are, and building a life around her.

Are you ready?

Why now?

Let me ask you this…

How many more years are you willing to stay stuck in your head?
To swallow your truth?
To wait for the “right” moment to finally back yourself?

How long have you been telling yourself you’ll do it later, when the kids are older, when work calms down, when you feel more “ready”?

How much longer are you going to keep shape-shifting in rooms that don’t even see the real you?

Here’s the truth: nothing changes until you do.

That’s what mentorship gives you.

You’ve waited long enough. You’re not behind. But you are ready.

So the real question is... how long are you going to keep abandoning her?

This isn’t the kind of support you can Google.

This is not a plug-and-play program or a set of mindset hacks you could’ve found on Pinterest.
And definitely not a one-size-fits-all approach to confidence.

This is personalised, voice-in-your-pocket, real-life mentorship.
The kind where you - your patterns, your pain, your power, set the tone.

We don’t gloss over your lived experience. We build from it.
We take the things you’ve been silencing, the stuff under the surface, and finally give them space to shift.

This isn’t about teaching you how to “be confident.”
It’s about helping you remember who the hell you are under the conditioning, the pressure, the performance.

That’s what sets this mentorship apart.
It’s tailored. It’s intuitive. It’s truth-first.
And it’s built for you, not the version you think you need to be.

Still perched on the fence?

I get it, saying yes to you can feel like a big deal.

If your gut’s saying maybe but your brain’s spiralling with questions… let’s chat.

Slide into my DMs over at @jessicajane_og.

No pressure just real talk about whether this is the right move for you.